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10 REASONS / ROOT CAUSES OF DIVORCE IN THE 21ST CENTURY

Don't get me started with the whole, "Vien007 has eaten breakfast", this has nothing to do with me but more of you. Listen, when we were kids, the only thoughts filled in womens brains were marriage, kids and more kids, then maybe money for the kids of this every growing Gen z and Gen X, I mean, our parents and fore fathers were all about lovem but theses days, "Love" they say is never really enough. Today, I truly want to disect the core reasons on why people breakup, or divorce beyond reconcilliation that is to say, the file for irreconcilable differencies. In a few bullet points, I will just list all 10 reasons/Root causes of divorce in the 21st century (Trust me on this, I know what I'm saying) 1. Insecurity. Now this births lack of trust in your partner, loss of respect for eachother and other things brought about by it. Like I said, itrs just bullet points, if you want the full breakdown, then you'd have to subscribe to my YouTube chanel http...

5 Difficult Leadership Decisions and How to Make Them

Being a great leader isn’t easy, but almost anyone can do a good job if they put in the time and effort. What really sets outstanding leaders apart from average leadership is the decisions that are made when tough situations come up. By considering these five common decisions most leaders will have to make at some point in their career, you’ll be better equipped to make them when they inevitably come up.  1) Going in a different direction While most professionals go into a project believing it will be a success, sometimes it doesn’t turn out the way you planned. Though this doesn’t automatically mean giving up, at some point, you’ll need to decide whether to continue on the path you’re on or switch directions. Going in a new direction with your business can be daunting; though you’ve done your market research, there are no guarantees.  It’s a good idea to consult your team for their input, but at the end of the day it’s your decision. Trust in your experience and knowledge, and...

STRAIGHT FROM THE HEART

You know, "I could stop dreaming but it never ends" is lyrics off Brian Adams song dubbed, "Straight From The Heart" from the 1983 "cuts like a knife" Album. Here are the full lyrics. I could start dreamin' but it never ends As long as you're gone we may as well pretend I've been dreamin' Straight from the heart! And what I am about to type is coming directly from my heart of hearts. 2021 has not been kind to me at all, its been more than that! It's a wonderful yet painful year. 2021 Showed me who people are and I believed them, 2021 made me grow up fast enough than I have been shy from doing, 2021 showed me what love, family & friendship looks like compared to what it looked like. From family & friends who dissapointed me, to new ones who came through like superman rescuing louis lane, 2021, it is well. Had my mums final goodbye Amisa service in October, to be honest, losing Mum has been an overwhelming experience. Just thi...

HOW TO CONSOLE A GREIVING PERSON (The Best Things to Say to Someone in Grief)

Its a new dawn, and I am here and ver much alive, all thanks to God, the universe still knows I am here, I matter and I still exist. Woke up as early as I could today because I had to go say good morning to my mum at her and dads resting place. So like a normal typical environmental Thursday, everywhere felt like rapture had take, well my literal meaning to that is everywhere was peaceful and queit. Headed to the office, clocked in my time at 7 am for the day then I zoomed off to go say hi to Ammamamia and Smart O! The true loves of my life. On my way back, something struck me like a lightning bolt! The thoughts plaguing my mind was all about how some friends sent condolence messages across to me and this is what inspired my blog post for today. So, if you ever want to learn how to console someone who just lost a loved one, this is where you need to be. First off, I will share what few persons said to me that didnt make any senses and also share what most people didnt do and wha...

MY MOTHER HAS BECOME AN ANGEL

To be honest with you, I have no feelings at this moment as I type, and the word "NUMB" is literally my middle name, this is why. On the 5th of August 2021, a part of me died! My Mother who sat and watched my infant head is gone, but is she really? Facts leading up to the death of my mother seem to proove to me that she is very much still alive but as an Angel, I say this because a day after her demise, many strange but miraculous occurrences happend just before we laid her to rest on the 18th and 19th of August. The first thing I observed in knowing my mum became an angel was the acts she did up until her demise. Mum had a little diary where she wrote her daily life experiencies, Mum left a note where she had a count down till she went up to heaven to be with my Father who passed on 23 years ago, Mum counted the last date is a small piece of paper where she wrote, 22 years, 11 months and 1 day (this is how long it took her to be reunited with my father in heaven)...

Ways To Stop A Bullying Boss

Hey stranger, it's been a hot minute! A lot has happened while you were away but glad you could find time to come say Hi! This is me Vien007, I want to say a few things today about bullying. I know you may think it end on the cyber space but the kind of bullying I want to talk about is the one in the workplace If you are bullied for several years by colleagues and bosses, its because you let them, so let this post sink in, checkmate these humans that are so broken to derive delight in breaking other complete humans. Wanna break free? here goes! Follow these rules and thank the bond lady later. For some people, confronting bullying is the priority over maintaining their position in the company. Others would prefer to learn coping mechanisms while they hunt for a new job. Whatever your decision, be sure you are prepared for the possible outcome. If confronting your boss is something you want to do, here are six steps for handling the situation in the most effective way possible: ...

Meet Vien007 TEN Brand Manager

Vien007, also known as the Sassy Classy Bond Lady of Nigeria, is an award-winning talented Journalist, Broadcaster and media practitioner who is one of the most versatile female journalists in Nigeria as recognized by the BBC Media Action in Abuja- Nigeria, whilst using her voice (On Air/ Radio). Originally from Benin, Edo State, she grew up in Festac, Lagos, Nigeria from a young age. Vien007’s real name is “Bamidele Vivian Osagie” and she is an ex-beauty queen racking up awards and nominations. Vien did part-time radio presenting alongside the late Dan Foster on 92.3 Inspiration FM, Lagos -Nigeria for “The Samsung Radio Show”, which kicked off her radio career; then to Reel Radio Online “The Dj Request hour show”; before landing a major radio gig at City 105.1 FM, where she spent the greater part of her on air experience which inevitably made her a house hold name in the broadcasting industry. She was also the brains behind the City Media Academy, a media training school at City...