Don't get me started with the whole, "Vien007 has eaten breakfast", this has nothing to do with me but more of you. Listen, when we were kids, the only thoughts filled in womens brains were marriage, kids and more kids, then maybe money for the kids of this every growing Gen z and Gen X, I mean, our parents and fore fathers were all about lovem but theses days, "Love" they say is never really enough.
Today, I truly want to disect the core reasons on why people breakup, or divorce beyond reconcilliation that is to say, the file for irreconcilable differencies.
In a few bullet points, I will just list all 10 reasons/Root causes of divorce in the 21st century (Trust me on this, I know what I'm saying)
1. Insecurity. Now this births lack of trust in your partner, loss of respect for eachother and other things brought about by it. Like I said, itrs just bullet points, if you want the full breakdown, then you'd have to subscribe to my YouTube chanel https://www.youtube.com/user/VienSmart for more insight to this as I will be addressing this and more on there this week.
2.Social Media. When the question comes to post or not to post, please trust me on this, only post if both parties agree. Then there are other ways social media can or may affect your relationship, I willalso share more on that on my YouTube space.
3.Ego & Pride. Ha, these two go hand in hand with eachother and has caused 90% of the damages in relationships all over the world.
4.Family. Tell them to stay out of it.
5. Friends. They always have something to say and just ruin something beutiful in the name of counseling.
6. Fear. My followers, if for anything, please kill your fears before you say I do in anything, be it job, friendship, business, and most importantly, marriage because, if it leaks, that fear, if it leaks I say again, then you are done for.
7.Lack Of Self Worth. A sense of one's own value as a human being is all you need to hold your head above water, know this and know peace in your relationship.
8.What you watch and listen to can make or break you, the choice is yours as a couple.
9.Financies. Oh my, money is truly the root to evil, hiding your income will cause trouble, not hiding your income will cause trouble, that too will be explained on my YouTube chanel.
10. Going to bed angry. Look here child, I too I'm on this table, nobody wins in the end when you do this. We all suffer.
Bonus or you can call it number 11, never give your partner space! It brews a deadly break between you both that if care is not taken, or if you are not used to it, you may just from the break walk away from the best thing you ever had.
Remember, in every human, there is a little demon taunting them, try to always be sensitive in the spirit, watch what you say and what you type to your partner, watch how you react to them little trivial things, know thineself and to thineself be true.
This is me Vien007. Catch you on the otherside of my space both on Anchor Fm & YouTube . Click links below to take you there and kindly subscribe if this piece has blessed you.
See y'all later alligator & kind to one another, it's not gonna cost you much aii.
Bamidele V. Osagie
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Vien007
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